![]() ![]() It may not have always been easy, but every damn time it has been worth it. How many times did I regret a decision that pushed me out of my comfort zone? Zero. While you sit there silently in love, you’re wasting precious time for either that person to recognize what the hell is in front of their face or you are allowing someone to waste your time when there is somebody else that could be giving you everything you deserve. If you want more from somebody, you need to tell them. So, I guess what I’m telling you to do is to put yourself out there. If you feel that you need to leave the relationship you’re in but are too scared, trust in change and just do it. Because the truth is, if you don’t put yourself first, nobody else will. Then it is time to make sure we are putting our wants and needs before anybody else’s. Well, let’s start with learning to love ourselves. I’m sure you are wondering what it is you are supposed to do. It’s a decision that they have to make and as hard as it is to hear, there is a chance it will never happen. You can’t love someone to the point that makes them want to be with you. The only people we are fooling is ourselves. We as fixers tend to think that just a little bit more time or a few more grand gestures on our part is going to do the trick. ![]() Well, the truth is, when a person tells you that they are too damaged, confused or not wanting anything, you need to believe them. You sense the good in them and even when you see the red flags, you believe it can be fixed. You meet someone and you see their potential. ![]() If you’re anything like me, which I’m quickly discovering a lot of people are, you are a fixer. I’m talking about all the uncertain relationships the indecisive partners, the friends with benefits, the scared ones. I’m not just talking about the loser you keep in your life, who on a good day makes you feel okay about yourself but most days allows you to feel low and worthless. So why do you waste your time pursuing people and relationships that cannot compete with what you are able and willing to give? ![]()
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
AuthorWrite something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview. ArchivesCategories |